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...If you don’t get it under
control…it just gets worse. In my work with thousands of families, I have
seen how ugly, how mean, how demanding and uncooperative children can become. It
is a very, very serious problem and anyone who says. “Oh…they will grow out of
it” doesn’t have to live with it.
Take Dr. Cale’s Tantrum Test
Please be aware… if you find
yourself saying YES to many of these “Tantrum Test” questions, there is a
problem. It doesn’t mean that anything is wrong with you as a parent. It also
doesn’t mean anything is “wrong” with your child.
It does mean that there is a serious problem in the pattern of your parenting.
And the good news is that you can change that pattern with the tools you will
find in my Tantrum Fixer Program!
I have also found the following to be true: If you are driven to be searching
for answers about tantrums, it is likely that you do not have common, typical
tantrums. Those tantrums usually follow conventional wisdom…and often fade away
on their own and rarely affect the quality of life at home. (And yet…sometimes
even typical tantrums don’t fade away. They may get worse.)
Please be aware of these common mistakes, and learn how to avoid them!
As you no doubt have learned, preventing temper tantrums is not necessarily
simple. Anyone who says otherwise hasn’t been in your shoes.
You know that simply being firm doesn’t do it. You know that taking away toys or
“goodies” doesn’t do it. You know that time out or punishments don’t work. You
know that soothing or comforting the tantrumming child is a solution for the
moment…but brings you no peace or comfort over the long term. Here’s why these
approaches don’t work:
The Truth That’s Shocking To Many Parents Is That Tantrumming Is Not Just About
Being a
Strong-Willed Child. It’s Not Just About
Saying “No” When They Want
“Yes.”
It’s Not Just About Getting Ice Cream,
A Toy Or Some Object They Want.
But Children Tantrum To Get Something
Even More Important…
YOU!
This leaves you in a very difficult position. Not only do they want to get
things their way, but they want to get it their way AND get your energy and
attention. Even when parents combat the tantrum and say “no”, they’re still
devoting their energy and attention to the whining, the ugliness, and the
tantrum behavior. Children don’t continue to tantrum unless they’re getting what
they want…in one form or another.
They want the object of their desires (e.g., finish video, keep playing, get
candy, not go to bed, not have to leave, etc.)…or they want you.
In an ideal world for them…they get both.
…that’s what they are getting! Right?
Often, they get it their way…and they get you to argue, negotiate, plead, battle
or soothe them. This is a big…very big…problem. In order to get relief soon,
this pattern must change.
If you want the temper tantrums to stop, you must have a clear game plan to
change things. If you don’t have a clear game plan, you will fall into old
patterns, and end up making things worse with half-baked ideas and ill-conceived
strategies. It’s true!
Well, actually…that’s not really the full truth. If you don’t have a clear game
plan, you actually end up losing control of your home and your life. You find
yourself dancing around your child’s demands, and feeling embarrassed and
angered that you don’t have more control over things.
Ultimately, your child ends up “driving the bus”! The long term picture can get
very ugly. Your whole world can end up revolving around futile, but exhausting,
efforts to avoid conflict. Your whole life can be squeezed of every ounce of joy
by a teenager who hasn’t learned to control their emotions.
Before deciding that you really need to do this now…not later…just pause for a
second: Can you actually imagine a teenage body, with teenage hormones, reacting
with teenage emotions, but filled with uncontrolled teenage-size temper
tantrums? It’s UGLY!
You may not want to imagine this scene…because I have seen it…and I understand.
It’s beyond ugly. It’s beyond painful. It’s beyond your worst nightmare.
Family life is lost. Futures are needlessly surrendered to detention, constant
mental health counseling, endless timeouts, and threats of family court help
just to bring sanity to the home.
You deserve better…and
your child deserves better.
You see, from my side of things, I know that life can be better. Not next year.
Not five years from now. Not after they graduate from high school.
Life at home can be better in just a week to 10 days! I have seen it hundreds of
times in working with every type of family, every style of parenting, and every
variation of a strong willed or oppositional child. They all get it! Every child
gets it…WHEN you get it.
That’s right…they all get it… ONCE you can learn to control everything they care
about…and stop trying to control them.
Why? Because you can’t really control them. They have proven that to you dozens
of times.
Right? I mean…if you did have control over them…you wouldn’t be reading this.
And I wouldn’t be writing it either! So if we both step into the reality of your
situation at this moment…you don’t have control over your child. But guess
what…you do control their environment…and everything they care about. That’s the
secret!
In my Tantrum Fixer Program, I teach you how to set up their world so they can
learn to listen to you. You don’t force it…you allow them to learn! Once again…I
repeat myself, but this is the secret. Setting up a home environment where you
control what they care about in a way that they can learn quickly and
easily…that’s it’s really in their interest to listen to mom and dad. It’s that
simple. And yet, without the formula for how to control your home, you could
trying different plans for the next five years.
Why take that chance with your child’s future, and with your happiness and
sanity?
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9 Ways My Tested and Proven Tantrum Fixer Program Will Work For You And Your
Child
1.
You’ll learn exactly what to do, when to do it and exactly how to do it. No
psychobabble to confuse you!
2.
You will master a clear, simple plan that works for all ages and child
personalities. No exceptions!
3. You will know precisely what to say to your child to make sure that the
learning occurs quickly. A few powerful words only!
4. You will understand what you need to do in every situation, whether at home
or in public.
5. You learn to stop trying to avoid upsets, but instead learn to use upsets as
moments of real instruction (so that they quickly stop).
6. You learn to respond so that your energy and attention is used to nurture a
healthier way of responding…
7. You discover how you have worked too hard trying to solve things for them,
and why this has destroyed your hard work to make things better.
8. I teach you remarkably simple ways to control your environment so that your
focus shifts away from your child in these intense moments. You feel more in
control by focusing on what you can control!
9. You also discover how your peace of mind (in having a proven plan set in
motion) immediately helps to bring calmness to your child…even while they are
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Some of you may be skeptical. I don’t blame you. But I want to make this
decision easy. Either this is the right program for you to transform your family
or maybe it’s not the absolute best fit. To discover when this is right for you,
I ask you to keep in mind these facts:
1. Your child’s future is at risk. You know that. I know that. And the right
adjustment on your part will completely change the trajectory of their life. I
have seen it hundreds of times.
2. As a Licensed Psychologist and parenting expert, I am not speaking just from
the limited experience of raising three children. I have helped raise thousands
of children…with remarkable results.
3. With twenty-five years of experience in psychology, I have read just about
everything there is to read on the subject of child behavior management. I have
studied the research. I know what works and what doesn’t work. I have turned
these findings into a user-friendly approach you can master quickly. And you get
the absolute best of what I know in this program.
4. Because of my expertise and experience, I have been trusted to offer
parenting advice to literally thousands upon thousands of people. I have been
interviewed hundreds of times on TV, both for regional and national broadcasts.
My quotes are included in dozens of newspaper articles. I have worked with
thousands of families, while uniquely focused on parenting. Bottom line: I have
more trusted experience in this area than just about anyone you can get your
hands on.
This is not said to impress you. It is stated to impress upon you that you will
not find a product or program similar to this. This product is different. This
advice is different. The results you get will be different…it will transform
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5.
Still don’t believe this really works. You don’t have to believe me. Listen
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But, if you aren't satisfied for any reason, or it doesn't live up to your
expectations, you won't be out one red cent. Just return the course and we'll
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But guess what, there is
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sweeten the pot and give you every possible reason to decide now you want this
program! You won’t believe the package I have put together to help get you out
of this mess!
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First: I am not only going to
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access with an MP3 download. You can be using the program an hour from now! This
is valued at $57.00, for the CD and the download is
FREE in this package.
Secondly: I am also
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and commentary to help you have absolute clarity. These products alone are a $37.00 value, but these are included
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Fourth: I want you to feel
supported by me and I want to make certain every question is answered. My
marketing advisor has suggested that this idea is insane, but for now…I am doing
it anyway. For 30 days after you buy this program, you can email me anytime with
any questions you have about the program. I will typically get back to you
within 48 hours. This is a $150.00 service that I give to you
FREE with this program.
Fifth: I am providing you an
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articles that I have selected from hundreds of articles I have written over the
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Finally: you and I both understand that your happiness
and joy shapes your child’s happiness. It’s through what we model every day that
really counts, and this topic is of great interest to me. It is very likely that
your children will be most affected by how you show up each day! And I want to
do my part to help. So for my ultimate Free Bonus, I am including my unique
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doesn’t matter which package you choose. You
get the same amazing solutions to stop the tantrums in your home. You will get
everything you need to fix these exhausting, demanding and life zapping tantrums
from your life. Guaranteed!
However, I set this up so that your best value includes unlimited access to me
by email in the deluxe package. While it’s only a few dollars more, I would hope
you take me up on the deluxe package as I really want to answer any questions
you may have. Practically speaking, I had to ask for more money to give you that
access and many of you won’t need it. But some of you may have questions, and
that’s what it’s there for.
In the Deluxe package you also get the Think Positive CD program. [In the April
edition of People Magazine, one of my parents who used this program is featured
in a one page article focused on parents who have turned their life around. In
my interviews with her, she credits the beginning of her life turn-around to
this program! Very cool!] Anyway, you also get this CD in the Deluxe Package…so
overall… it’s an amazing package for such a modest investment to change your
life.
In case you are still asking if this is the program for you, I suggest you buy
now, and test me.
That’s my commitment: Test me. Test the program. Listen. Read. Master the
steps…and then just test it.
You have absolutely nothing to lose, and everything to gain!
Remember: This system works!
Here’s a reminder why!
It's a system based upon the principles of neuro-psychology,
behavior management, and learning theory. In short, the program quickly teaches
you how to get your children to listen…without the huge tantrums.
In the Tantrum Fixer, I’ll reveal these things and more. About an hour is all it
takes for me to give you the tools to bring sanity and relief from the whining,
complaining and tantrums that can drive you crazy. You will end up listening to
the program many times, in order to get all the details. But the basic plan will
be in place an hour after you get the program. It’s that easy!
If you are ready for the tantrums to stop…you‘ll need to act fast. Click on the
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If you implement these strategies, and don’t improvise with unproven ideas,
you’ll be amazed at the response of your children.
So, what are you waiting for? You have nothing to lose…(except the tantrum
behavior, the frustration, the battles, the upsets, the thrown objects…and the
unhappiness and struggle). Hummm…I guess that’s all worth giving up…isn’t it!
You don’t have to decide now because I will absorb all of the risk. Remember…you
get a 365 day unconditional money back guarantee. So here’s what I suggest:
Get the Tantrum Fixer program right now, by clicking on the link below. Simply
follow my user-friendly guidelines in your own home. I will lay out every detail
for you. (Put away all your other parenting advice…for just 30 days. You can
throw it all away, after you have proven to yourself the power of this
approach.) You’ll see results in as little as a few days but I will give you a
full 365 days to decide for yourself. Then, if you aren’t absolutely thrilled
and relieved that the frustrating and embarrassing behavior is gone…no problem,
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To your success,
Randy L. Cale, Ph.D.
P.S.: If you are struggling with tantrums, and battles trying to get your child to
calm, and you don't change, it will only get worse.
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